Writing a Bio That Gets Attention

Most bios are forgettable. A good bio does two things: it tells people who you are, and it gives them something to message you about.

Keep it short and specific

You don’t need to write an essay. Two to four sentences is ideal. The goal is to spark curiosity, not tell your entire life story.

Too vague:

“I love travelling, food, and having fun. Looking for someone genuine.”

Much better:

“Software engineer by day, terrible home cook by night. Just got back from three weeks in Vietnam and already planning the next trip. Ask me about the time I accidentally ordered chicken feet thinking it was something else.”

The second version is specific, has personality, and gives three easy conversation starters.

Mention what makes you unique

Think about what your close friends would say about you. What do people remember about you after meeting you? Lead with that.

A hobby or passion you take seriously
Something you’re working towards
An unusual interest or skill
A funny or memorable experience

What to avoid

Lists of requirements — “must be tall, must have a job, no time-wasters” — this reads as negative and puts people off
Overly serious or intense openers — “I’m looking for my life partner” can feel like pressure before you’ve even matched
Clichés — “adventurous”, “love to laugh”, “fluent in sarcasm” — these say nothing
Leaving it blank — an empty bio significantly reduces your match rate

End with an easy question

Give people a reason to message you by ending with something they can respond to:

“Currently addicted to trying every rooftop bar in the city — recommend me your favourite?”

This removes the awkward “what do I say?” moment for the other person.